Throughout my musical career, I've had the privilege of meeting people from all over the world, people from different walks of life, and people who have their own unique perspectives and experiences. I've been fortunate to play music with many people, and even more fortunate to form life-long bonds and friendships with some of them. It's a very rare occurrence when someone comes into my life and permanently changes the way I interact with music, the way I share and talk about ideas, and the way I think about what is and is not important with regard to making, recording, and performing music. Nearly three years ago, I was in the right place at the right time. I was lucky enough to be asked to audition for Violet Mary, a band I'd always admired and secretly wanted to be a part of. It was then that Martin Dorren (I call him Marty) came into my life and completely changed it for the better. I remember being a little intimidated at first because I could tell how serious he was about his craft and how important it was for him to find the right person to take over behind the drum set and complete the rhythm section. I knew the previous drummer, and let's just say I had some big shoes to fill. After an audition and some conversation with the band, my fate was in their hands. A couple days later, I got the call. I was in! We started working on the band's extensive catalog of songs, dating back to 2008. At the same time, we were recording a new record that ended up being a double disc with 14 songs! It was no small task and we sure had our hands full. As I got to know Marty, I was humbled by his musicianship, but more importantly, by who he was as a person. Marty's approach to music is an art in and of itself. He knew the notes to play, the notes to hold back, and the story to tell to take the audience on a journey they would not soon forget. Marty quickly became a friend, a mentor, and the person I call to talk about the ups and downs of life over coffee and breakfast at IHOP. He even became my Spiritual Advisor during my bid for the Presidency of the United States. His graciousness, generosity, and willingness to lend an ear and reach out a hand is second to none. His guidance was invaluable to Violet Mary's progress. He filled many roles within the band. Marty is a songwriter, a lyricist, a producer, a composer, a bass player, a vocal coach, a storyteller, an advocate, an arranger, a confidant, and a friend. His wisdom, his unadulterated approach to his art, and his truly unique ability to tell a story with a song without ever saying a word has forever changed the way I look at music and at friendship. A couple weeks ago, Marty informed me and the rest of the band that he would be leaving Violet Mary. The four of us sat around the table and talked, and our conversation ended in hugs and well wishes. I've spent the last three years learning, growing, finding inspiration, and processing my thoughts and feelings with Marty. I've already felt his absence, but I feel gratitude more than anything else for everything that Marty has shown me as a musician and as a person, and I'm thankful that our friendship will endure. I can confidently speak for all the remaining members of Violet Mary when I say we love Marty and we will miss his contributions to our deep rock pockets.